By Dr Cheryl Hawkins
Mental Illness is not a new thing. Throughout the Bible there are accounts of people experiencing poor mental health. Well known Christian leaders such as Martin Luther, Charles Spurgeon and William Cowper are known to have had struggles. And today anxiety, depression, loneliness, grief, psychosis, OCD, trauma all sorts of other conditions are experienced by many people in our congregations.
Generally over the last few years, people have been more openly talking about mental health issues in everyday life, but churches have seemed reluctant to join in the discussion, and many people feel like they can’t talk about it as mental health awareness in churches lags behind the rest of society.
Conversations around mental health have largely been driven by younger generations who are much more open to think about the impact work-life balance, past trauma and neurodiversity among other things have on mental health. As recent church growth has been among these younger generations who are keen to explore faith and have many questions about what we believe and how and why we do the things we do, it is time that the church examined its theology of mental health and thought about how it can be more proactive in supporting people with mental illness in church.
This doesn’t mean churches have to become therapy centres or have mental health professionals, but it does mean that we need to think through how we talk about mental health and what we can actually do to help.
The NHS General Household survey showed 1 in 5 adults have experienced a common mental health condition in the last week, and research shows that there are similar rates of mental illness within our church populations as in the general population. So that means that if your church has 100 people, 20 of them may have been struggling with something last Sunday.
Sometimes those people will stay at home and miss a week or more of coming to church because it’s too hard to face everyone when they are feeling like that. Some will go to church, smile and be able to put on their “Sunday face” for a couple of hours, then go home and crumble where they are not seen. A few will go to church and be honest about how they are feeling, seeking to get help and support. Some of those may be met with compassion, but we know some of them will be judged, ignored or given harmful information.
We need to talk about supporting people with mental illness in church because there are so many myths and harmful beliefs around mental health that it has an impact on how people ask for and receive help. Even if your church does not officially hold judgemental, harmful or false beliefs about mental health, unless they are explicitly tackling the stigma about it, it may still prevent people seeking the support they need.
Churches are amazing places of community, care and support which can really help someone when they are experiencing poor mental health. So much of what our churches do can aid in recovery from mental illness. Even if your church doesn't have a specific ministry around mental health, by being a place where mental health is talked about openly and people can access practical non-judgemental support you are making a difference to people at a time when they most need it. This not only helps them get through the difficult times it helps their faith to grow as they experience a place where they belong and are loved.
Where do we start?
If you don't know where to start with all of this check out the training and resources we offer on our website and email me on cheryl@encouragementalhealth.org with any questions about how we can encourage your church to support people with poor mental health.